Think Box

 

 I am thinking how happy some of us are, we could be in a relationship or single. Some of us, like myself, I am happy whether I am single or in a relationship, don't get me wrong some of my relationships I can write a book and you would scream laughing. But I am learning that my mouth when I get mad is a sword and it cuts deep. Now back to what I was thinking, Relationships are complicated at times, but that is no need to post that on Facebook, you all drive me crazy with that, but no seriously, LOVE IS LOVE.

That relationship that you are in married - if you are having issues, work it out, talk, walk up to your significant other and say, 'listen we need to talk and communicate what is wrong, if you have to send those forever text, send them (I don't care what bitter Betty says) do it, that way they will know exactly what is wrong and can think about it, if they decide to work on it, take it to a third party and let them help and Pray on it. If things still don't change go to counseling.

If you are separated and still want your marriage or divorced and still want you husband or wife back, call them, tell them what is on your heart and see if you all can work on it, If the answer comes back yes, pack yourself up from where you are and go home. This situation will need prayer and counseling. Because you both have been doing "You" but go home. God has allowed you to fall in love with that person and marry them for a reason. If you are separated and or divorced for a reason other than being stubborn, and cheating than I would say, re-evaluate, and stay away if necessary.

We all have issues, none of us is perfect, everyone is not a NARCISSIST, where did that word come from, goodness. But we need to learn how to communicate, take your time and just talk. Those words don't come easy, but they will come, stop calling your wife, husband and kids Bruh, and dude that is not cute.

 Now for my people us single people make me laugh! We date and claim and get our hearts broken and claim and date and get our hearts broken, LOL!!!  Can't we just date and not claim and be happy, until further notice.  Have fun, don't claim nothing until something claims you. Goodness I am learning to practice what I preach. Remember you can date and get a feel of what is out there without getting your heart broken, try to remember you are looking for your forever not for your right now and try to turn it into forever, that is not going to work. There are several things we can work on, just you, Date, and work on you! Enjoy every step of looking for Mr. Right.

Ok so that was my thought process today! Stay tuned, I may have something else. But if not, that's just work on the community! and stay together there is nothing like LOVE.

 

This is just my opinion. don't get all crazy.